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How did Treva and Robby Scharf know it was time to settle down? Because they were done being single. Before getting married for the first time in their 50's, Treva and Robby did it all, dated it all, and lived to tell. Treva and Robby are dating survivors. They’re the authorities on being single and finding love later in life. Treva and Robby don’t just offer empty platitudes and promises, they offer dating intervention. From dating apps to dating gaffes, from getting a second date to getting laid, Treva and Robby have a toolbox of tips, and a guest list of dating coaches, relationship experts, therapists, personal growth influencers, and thought leaders to help people get out of dating hell and find real love. If you’re a dating hater ready to up your dating game, then you’re ready for DONE BEING SINGLE.
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Tuesday May 19, 2020
Tuesday May 19, 2020
Acclaimed personal development thought leader Katie Hendricks joins Done Being Single to talk about fear: how to face it and conquer it. In this episode, you'll learn about the five responses to fear: fight, flight, flee, faint, and flee. You’ll learn breathing and movement techniques, plus you’ll get the skills you need to maintain your sense of agency, reclaim your power, and get back into your body.
A must-hear/see show for the times we're living in!
Click here to see the video of this podcast on our YouTube Channel!
Thursday May 07, 2020
Thursday May 07, 2020
Recorded before the pandemic, but always a relevant issue in life, love, and DATING! You can be your own detective, here's how.
Former FBI Special Agent and counterintelligence specialist Robin Dreeke tells you how to catch a liar using his Five Steps to trust and Six Signs of predicting behavior. Learn how to size people up and recognize manipulation, control, subterfuge, and lack of transparency. Don’t be fooled again!
HOT TIP: If someone’s overcomplicating their answers, they’re probably lying.
Monday Apr 27, 2020
Monday Apr 27, 2020
Friday Apr 10, 2020
Friday Apr 10, 2020
Author of the best-selling relationship book, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, John Gray joins Done Being Single to discuss what happens when Mars & Venus are quarantined.
How does the power dynamic change when you're quarantined? Can you find balance? What do men need in time of need? What do women need to feel safe? How do you give each other space? Get great tips and takeaways on keeping your sanity, and your love alive in the time of coronavirus.
Click here to see video of our John Gray interview on YouTube!
Thursday Apr 02, 2020
Thursday Apr 02, 2020
Even though this episode of Done Being Single was recorded just before the coronavirus hit, its message and lessons are right on time. Building habits, maintaining structure, keeping a sense of normalcy is EVERTHING right now. From dating habits to living habits, your survival depends on how well you adapt, change, and rewire. The question is, can you do it? Our guest, behavioral scientist and New York Times best-selling author BJ Fogg, shares small, actionable and science-backed steps to help you make immediate changes in your life.
Thursday Mar 26, 2020
Thursday Mar 26, 2020
Known for his many roles on TV and film, but probably best known for his role as "Jackie Chiles" on "Seinfeld," Phil Morris is way more than a talented actor: he's a martial arts guru, a spiritual seeker, and fountain of wisdom when it comes to mastering a zen attitude in the face of crazy and chaos. He's also Treva & Robby's lifelong friend, and a great guy to talk to when all hell is breaking loose. On this episode, Phil shares his go-to tips and best practices for dealing with panic, fear, being out of work, as well as constructive ways to harness your energy.
Thursday Mar 19, 2020
Thursday Mar 19, 2020
There's nothing like a pandemic to cramp your dating style. Should you keep swiping? Get tested before meeting? Can you go on a date and stay 6ft. away? When is it safe to hug, kiss, or get intimate? Physician Dr. Andre Berger and dating expert Sandy Weiner give you the 411 on ways to stay safe AND socially connected in the time of COVID19.
Click here to see the video of our show with Dr. Andre Berger & Sandy Weiner!
Thursday Mar 12, 2020
Thursday Mar 12, 2020
At a certain age, most of us will find ourselves caring for aging parents or elderly loved ones. How do you do it and still have a life? If you're single, how do you balance caring for a parent with dating and relationships? Even if you’re married, how do you find balance and set proper boundaries? What kind of self-care techniques should you be practicing to save your love life and sanity? On this episode, Treva and Robby open up about their aging parents, the challenges they’re facing, and how they’re protecting their marriage through it all.
Thursday Mar 05, 2020
Thursday Mar 05, 2020
Whether you're a Boomer or GenX, the midlife crisis is true, and the struggle is real. Buying fast cars and dating younger women are nothing compared to the existential despair of financial worry, unmet expectations, self-doubt, hormonal changes, aging parents, and the pressures of social media. On this episode, New York Times best-selling journalist and author Ada Calhoun shares her eye-opening, groundbreaking research on the new midlife crisis and how to deal with it.
Thursday Feb 27, 2020
Thursday Feb 27, 2020
Your inner bully has been kicking the sh*t out of your self-esteem and confidence for years, convincing you you're not good enough. Now it's time to tell your inner bully (and anyone else who tries to bully you) who's boss. Empowering you with inspiration is our guest Theresa Byrne, global defense expert, business owner, 4th degree Black Belt, and a badass at slaying the inner bully. Her 2019 TEDx talk on "The Dangers of the Inner Bully," was recently listed as one of the "Top Ten Most Meaningful TED Talks" by Thrive Global magazine.