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How did Treva and Robby Scharf know it was time to settle down? Because they were done being single. Before getting married for the first time in their 50's, Treva and Robby did it all, dated it all, and lived to tell. Treva and Robby are dating survivors. They’re the authorities on being single and finding love later in life. Treva and Robby don’t just offer empty platitudes and promises, they offer dating intervention. From dating apps to dating gaffes, from getting a second date to getting laid, Treva and Robby have a toolbox of tips, and a guest list of dating coaches, relationship experts, therapists, personal growth influencers, and thought leaders to help people get out of dating hell and find real love. If you’re a dating hater ready to up your dating game, then you’re ready for DONE BEING SINGLE.
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Jul 28, 2020
Jul 28, 2020
59 min
Who knew dating and real estate had so much in common! Whether it's a looking for a spouse or buying/selling a house, you need to assess the property, stage it properly, be ready to show, make the necessary repairs, and know the worth. The same rules apply for picking the right partner. In fact, there are 99 rules to be exact.
Not only a funny episode, you'll learn a lot about real estate at the same time! With top-selling real estate agent, Brian Belefant, author of the new book "Spouse Hunting: Using The Rules Of Real Estate To Find The Love Of Your Life"
Brian Belefant began his career in Hollywood where he quickly rose in the production ranks as a top director shooting hundreds television commercials for household name brands, and dozens of award-winning art films. Realizing he was looking at a major life change when his child was born with special needs, he relocated to Portland, OR and became one of the top-selling real estate agents in the Pacific Northwest. Following an unexpected divorce, he wondered if he could use the set of 99 Rules of Real Estate he’d developed to re-enter the dating world with the goal of finding a new spouse. As luck would have it, he could – and now readers everywhere can do the same.
Jul 6, 2020
Jul 6, 2020
49 min
If you're dating or in a relationship with someone who's sober, what do you need to know? Does loving a sober person require special protocols or understanding? What are the perils? How can you be a better partner to someone who's sober? How do you protect yourself?
Answering all your questions about loving with sobriety is Dr. Robert Navarra, PsyD, LMFT, MAC, and Certified Gottman Therapist & Master Trainer in addiction recovery.
Jun 25, 2020
Jun 25, 2020
46 min
You may be able to mask your depression behind a happy face, a good marriage, or a successful career, but in the middle of a pandemic, it becomes much harder.
That's because a crisis like COVID--with the fear, anxiety, and trauma that comes with it--makes Perfectly Hidden Depression more difficult to hide.
On this episode of Done Being Single, clinical psychologist Dr. Margaret Rutherford explains the 10 characteristics of Perfectly Hidden Depression (PHD), teaches us the five C's of healing, and inspires us to take action without shame or guilt.
Jun 18, 2020
Jun 18, 2020
57 min
One of the many symptoms of COVID19 is a massive spike in divorce rates. If your marriage was already teetering, and you're in lockdown, chances are, you want out. Since there's no vaccination for a bad marriage, divorce might be the only cure.
So what to expect? Famed divorce lawyer and author James Sexton joins us to discuss the down and dirty of divorce during a pandemic. From hardship changes, to alimony and custody, this "courtroom gunslinger" has all the best practices you'll need for you and your spouse to call it quits.
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May 19, 2020
May 19, 2020
50 min
Acclaimed personal development thought leader Katie Hendricks joins Done Being Single to talk about fear: how to face it and conquer it. In this episode, you'll learn about the five responses to fear: fight, flight, flee, faint, and flee. You’ll learn breathing and movement techniques, plus you’ll get the skills you need to maintain your sense of agency, reclaim your power, and get back into your body.
A must-hear/see show for the times we're living in!
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May 7, 2020
May 7, 2020
49 min
Recorded before the pandemic, but always a relevant issue in life, love, and DATING! You can be your own detective, here's how.
Former FBI Special Agent and counterintelligence specialist Robin Dreeke tells you how to catch a liar using his Five Steps to trust and Six Signs of predicting behavior. Learn how to size people up and recognize manipulation, control, subterfuge, and lack of transparency. Don’t be fooled again!
HOT TIP: If someone’s overcomplicating their answers, they’re probably lying.
Apr 27, 2020
Apr 27, 2020
46 min
Apr 10, 2020
Apr 10, 2020
47 min
Author of the best-selling relationship book, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, John Gray joins Done Being Single to discuss what happens when Mars & Venus are quarantined.
How does the power dynamic change when you're quarantined? Can you find balance? What do men need in time of need? What do women need to feel safe? How do you give each other space? Get great tips and takeaways on keeping your sanity, and your love alive in the time of coronavirus.
Click here to see video of our John Gray interview on YouTube!
Apr 2, 2020
Apr 2, 2020
45 min
Even though this episode of Done Being Single was recorded just before the coronavirus hit, its message and lessons are right on time. Building habits, maintaining structure, keeping a sense of normalcy is EVERTHING right now. From dating habits to living habits, your survival depends on how well you adapt, change, and rewire. The question is, can you do it? Our guest, behavioral scientist and New York Times best-selling author BJ Fogg, shares small, actionable and science-backed steps to help you make immediate changes in your life.
Mar 26, 2020
Mar 26, 2020
58 min
Known for his many roles on TV and film, but probably best known for his role as "Jackie Chiles" on "Seinfeld," Phil Morris is way more than a talented actor: he's a martial arts guru, a spiritual seeker, and fountain of wisdom when it comes to mastering a zen attitude in the face of crazy and chaos. He's also Treva & Robby's lifelong friend, and a great guy to talk to when all hell is breaking loose. On this episode, Phil shares his go-to tips and best practices for dealing with panic, fear, being out of work, as well as constructive ways to harness your energy.