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How did Treva and Robby Scharf know it was time to settle down? Because they were done being single. Before getting married for the first time in their 50's, Treva and Robby did it all, dated it all, and lived to tell. Treva and Robby are dating survivors. They’re the authorities on being single and finding love later in life. Treva and Robby don’t just offer empty platitudes and promises, they offer dating intervention. From dating apps to dating gaffes, from getting a second date to getting laid, Treva and Robby have a toolbox of tips, and a guest list of dating coaches, relationship experts, therapists, personal growth influencers, and thought leaders to help people get out of dating hell and find real love. If you’re a dating hater ready to up your dating game, then you’re ready for DONE BEING SINGLE.
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Apr 25, 2019
Apr 25, 2019
53 min
If you've ever been cheated on, lied to, or betrayed, you know the pain. If you've ever cheated, lied, or betrayed someone, you also know the pain. It cuts both ways, so does the guilt, shame, and humiliation, which can be devastating to all parties concerned. Is it the death knell, or can a relationship survive? This week, Anita Chlipala MFT shares her practical tips, tools, and therapy insights, to help heal our wounds, mend our hearts, and show us we can love again with trust and faith.

Apr 18, 2019
Apr 18, 2019
51 min
Ever wonder what dating is like across the pond? Are Brits any different than Americans in how they meet, greet, match, swipe and connect? This week, acclaimed British sex writer, dating expert/historian, and former dominatrix, Nichi Hodgson chats with us about the culture of dating, and shares her insider tips on dating apps, romance, and secrets from the sexual underworld.

Apr 11, 2019
Apr 11, 2019
53 min
Money can be a tricky subject in marriages, relationships, even when you're dating. Who pays? Who has the power? Who makes the rules? Does the balance shift when the woman makes more money? How do you set boundaries with money? Does it really buy you love? This week, financial therapist Kine Corder tackles the tricky subject of love & money, so you don't have to tackle it yourself.

Apr 4, 2019
Apr 4, 2019
53 min
Welcome to single life at midlife: a new and exciting time to be on the market. You've got freedom, hot sex, independence, choices galore. The advantages of being single at this age are many, but so are the perils. This week, we're giving you everything you need to stay strong and sane, equipped and empowered, in the new post-50 dating world. Joining us with expert tips and tools are midlife inspirations, Sandy Weiner of Last First Date, and Silke Schwarzkopf of 2ndActTV.

Mar 28, 2019
Mar 28, 2019
52 min
When it comes to love, attraction, and commitment, all it takes is a good astrologer and some planetary alignments to see if you (and your partner) have what it takes. Beyond sun signs and drug store horoscopes, professional Vedic astrologer Carol Allen tells us what to look for in a mate, in a chart, and in the heavens, so you can determine what the perfect match is for you.

Mar 21, 2019
Mar 21, 2019
52 min
Dating is tough enough, but when you're dealing with mental health issues, it's even tougher. This week, find out how to deal with depression, anxiety, trauma, even suicidal thinking, when you're trying to date and find love. Joining us for a very honest and candid conversation is Catrien Villamil, LMFT, and Sharon Greenwald, writer and suicide survivor.

Mar 7, 2019
Mar 7, 2019
51 min
What can an Executive Coach teach you about dating success? Everything. What we know from business can be applied to love: best practices, communication skills, leadership, conflict management, confidence building, etc. Tune in this week as Executive Coach Bill Hart shares his professional business savvy to help you level up and give you the edge in life and love.

Feb 28, 2019
Feb 28, 2019
56 min
What does your girlfriend or boyfriend, date or partner, secretly like, want, and need? What little gestures do they love, but will never tell you? For those of you who can't read minds, we've got the next best thing: dating and relationship expert Marni Battista. True or false, fact or fiction, Marni's going to confirm or refute what GFs and BFs are thinking, and the secrets they want you to know.

Feb 21, 2019
Feb 21, 2019
55 min
Everyday w see #RelationshipGoals on social media, with happy, loving couples, smiling, laughing, and enjoying life. It looks so easy, but it's also easy to screw it all up. Avoiding communication, taking partners for granted, settling, and phoning it in, are just a few ways we #ScrewUp our relationships. David Steele, MFT and founder of the Relationship Coaching Institute joins us with practical tools and best practices to achieve and preserve your #RelationshipGoals.

Feb 14, 2019
Feb 14, 2019
55 min
We make New Year's resolutions to improve our we live, why not make Valentine's resolutions to improve how we love? If you're a couple, resolve to be a better partner, or to work harder at your relationship. If you're single, resolve to be happier by yourself, or less stigmatized by your single status. By next Valentine's Day 2020, resolve to feel love, have love, and be loved, regardless of your relationship status. Helping you make resolutions, set goals and intentions, is renown psychotherapist and love expert, Ken Page LCSW.
